Essential Factors to Consider When Moving With Children
February 28, 2009
Moving is a stressful enough experience for adults because of all the little details that need to be attended to. But how much more stressful do you think it will be for your children, who need to face the prospect of leaving their comfort zone for a new yet unknown place?
They will basically be leaving their friends and their school behind, and they literally need to start over in a new environment. So how can you acquaint your children with the fact that you are moving? Read on to earn about the essential factors that you need to consider.
How to Acquaint Younger and Older Kids with the Fact that You are Moving
One of the most important things that you need to do is involve your kids with the decision. Conduct a family meeting and involve them with the moving process. However, you need to give them ample time to prepare themselves for the move as well.
Inform your children of the move only when you have a definite date set. Explain to them the exact reason behind the move. Whether it is your job taking you someplace else or some other reason, allowing them to know why you need to move from one residence to another will make them understand the situation better.
Give your kids a preview of what your new neighborhood will look like, tell them that the move will be an opportunity for them to meet new friends – and address all their concerns accordingly.
Younger kids may need to be comforted, especially if they do not feel like leaving their comfort zone which is your current new home. Usually, the prospect of moving will frighten them that is why you need to give them all the encouragement and support that they need to cope with the idea of being in a new environment.
When it comes to teenage children, they may be a bit rebellious, especially since they are the ones who had a chance to build their ‘roots’ on the current place that you live in. Make sure to be prepared with emotions like depression, anger, frustration or nervousness.
It would also help if you will let the kids know that they would still have the chance to get in touch with their current friends through e-mail or by giving them a call once you move to your new place.
Other Things to Remember when Moving with Children
Another way to involve your kids in the moving process and making them get used to the idea is to assign tasks. Give them the packing materials and tell them how their own personal things should be packed. This would give them a sense of comfort, knowing that they would not have to leave any of their precious personal possessions behind.
Finally, give your kids ample time to say goodbye to their friends. You can even host a moving out party where they can invite all of their friends so that they can say goodbye.
As long as you are there to support them, any negative initial reactions that your kids may have when you announce the move will slowly be replaced by acceptance – and even excitement later on. As long as you appear enthused about the move yourself, they will surely follow your lead and more positively deal with the prospect of moving.
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Are You Planning a Move? Here’s What You Need to Know About Moving Materials & Packing
February 28, 2009
Instead of being an experience that homeowners usually look forward to, it becomes an experience that they dread due to the 101 little details associated with moving. Starting from gathering of the packing materials, sorting through the items that need to be packed, to the packaging and the moving itself – it all seems to be a task that is difficult for one person to handle.
But this should not be the case at all. As long as you have organized everything prior to the move, you will be able to successfully transfer all of your personal possessions from one place to another.
It All Starts with the Packing Materials & Supplies
The minute that you finalize the date of your move, that is when the packing should start. It is a good idea to reserve one room in the house where you can do all the packing. Start with the non-essential items first. Give yourself at least two weeks prior to the move date to pack everything up.
Now, what exactly are the packing materials and supplies that you will need? Naturally, you would need a lot of carton boxes which you can use to store all of your things.
Collect moving boxes from your relatives, friends and even the local grocery store. Just make sure that the boxes are still sturdy enough for you to reuse, otherwise the bottom of a box that you packed might fall off if the content becomes a tad too heavy.
The other packing supplies that you need include:
- Tissue paper or craft paper
- Bubble wrap for packing fragile items
- Packing tape & gummed tape
- Colored markers, pencil & notebook
- Used newspapers, blankets or old area rugs which you can use as ‘fillers’ for carton boxes
- Cutter, a pair of scissors or a sharp knife
After sorting out the things that you will bring along with you, make sure to clearly label all the boxes. It would help if you will use colored labels to identify which boxes go to the kitchen, living room or bedroom.
Random Packing Pointers for You to Remember
Now that you have an idea about how you can organize your packing supplies and materials, here are a lot of random packing pointers which you can use during your move:
- Again, make sure that the boxes are clearly labeled and do your packing well ahead of your move date.
- When packing items on individual boxes, place the heavier things on the bottom and the lighter things on top.
- Make sure that each box has a ‘maximum’ weight limit to make lifting and moving easier. For example, each box should be no more than 50 pounds in weight.
- When packing your dishware, make sure that the box is lined with crumpled packing paper and each individual plate should be covered with paper sheets. This way, they will not bump against each other and break during the move.
- Make sure to mark all your dishware boxes with a “Fragile” sign, and the glassware should be placed in an upright position, with the gaps filled with crumpled paper to prevent breakage.
- There are also special packing instructions when handling the food items on your fridge, and when packing delicate and valuable items. This includes your clocks, drapes and curtains, lamps, television and personal computer sets, power tools, mattresses and all the other household items that will be included with your move.
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Moving the Family 101
February 28, 2009
A move is always a major event for a family. Besides the long preparations and arrangements you need to go through, plus the travel, moving can also put a strain on family relations if not handled properly.
One way you can make things easier is by establishing open, good and solid communication with all the members of your family. This is the most important thing. This way you can explain the situation to them properly, and discuss any issues (and believe us, there are sure to be a lot of these) that any family member might have regarding the move.
Another way is give everyone early notice. This gives more time for everyone to resolve any issues they might have. This will also give you more time to prepare the logistics and arrange for the movers, etc.
Get everyone involved. When you’re talking to the kids, try to get them involved in the moving process. After all, they’ll be moving their things as well. It will teach them to be responsible for their own things and also show that you respect their privacy, since you’re letting them fix their own stuff instead of poking around their things. But also show that you’ll be available should they need any help.
Emphasize the good things. Always try to (subtly) impress on your kids not just how important the move is, but also about the advantages attached to it – especially the advantages to your children. After all, you won’t be moving if the reason weren’t worth it. Also try to exercise more patience with your kids. Understand that they’re going through a difficult phase in life they have no control over, and they need your support.
Speaking of support, always be open to your children’s suggestions, if they have any. Establishing good communication means that you’re ready to listen to them and their concerns, as well as take both positive AND negative comments. Be sure to also do your best to answer any questions or concerns they have regarding the move. This will show that you also consider what they think and feel as valid concerns that also need to be addressed.
After the move, some children will exhibit signs that they are experiencing difficulties. It will be easier for you if your children were the type to come up to you and tell you directly that they have a problem, but for a lot of other kids, displeasure, and sometimes mental strain caused by the move manifest in more subtler symptoms like loss of appetite, difficulty sleeping, and anti-social and / or aggressive attitude and behavior. So you need to look out for signs like these, and consider the possibility of going to family counseling in extreme cases. Some children exhibit these symptoms especially if the move is done after a tragic or traumatic event, so it’s always important to look out for them and try to let them know that you will always be there to support them and help them.
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How to De-Clutter Your Things When Moving Ideas For Those Items That You Do Not Need
February 28, 2009
If you think that moving is a stressful experience that is not worth it at all, think again. Despite the thousands of tiny little details that you need to attend to, moving can actually be a signal for you to give your life or your business a fresh start.
When you move, you will be faced with the prospect of dealing with an entirely new environment, you will get to meet new people, gain new experiences and you can organize your home life in such a way that you can ‘de-clutter’.
How to Start De-Cluttering & What to do with the Items that You Do Not Need
So how can you start the de-cluttering process and what should you do with the items that you do not need? First of all, you should organize your things in such a way that they will be divided into different piles.
You can create one pile for the reusable items that you can sell. There might be something valuable that you do not want anymore which you can sell at online auctions/ For the not-so-usable stuff, you can either throw them away or send them to a recycling station. Finally, make sure to leave some items that you do not need for giving away to charitable organizations.
So basically, you will either be left with items that you cannot use anymore, and items which others can still use. Here’s what you can do with the items that you do not need anymore – but can still be of use to other people:
1. Sell your things at an online auction.
Think about whether you still need your childhood collection of robots, dolls or toys. If you feel that you can live with them anymore, sell them at an online auction instead. Not only will you be able to earn money out of the items that you can sell at online auctions – but you can also considering getting rid of those things as a way to start things afresh.
2. Organize a garage sale.
No moving experience will ever be complete without organizing a garage sale! After organizing your things, put in one pile all of the items that you think other people can still use and put them out for a garage sale.
You can also consider the garage sale that you will organize as a moving out party that you can hold for your neighbors, by providing them with free refreshments as they look through the items that you are selling.
3. Donate some items to charity.
Finally, set aside some of the things that you have and donate them to charity.
After getting rid of the items that you do not need anymore, you can pack up the rest of your stuff and look forward to the new people who you’ll meet, the new experiences that you will gain and the new environment that you can savor when you finally move to your new place.
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Are You a Law-abiding, Responsible Parent
February 28, 2009
Do you consider yourself a law-abiding citizen and a responsible parent? If so then presumably you would never leave your children unsupervised near a swimming pool nor allow your small child to ride his bicycle in peak-hour traffic on a busy highway, nor play with matches or leave firearms within reach of children. And you would never allow a child to travel in a car without wearing a safety belt or properly secured in a car safety seat.
If you can still honestly say that as far as the law or responsibility in considering the safety of your children, you are above reproach, then you are in the minority if you are a South African motorist. According to a recent survey carried out by the AA’s Public Affairs department only 50% of drivers use their safety belts. An even more disturbing finding was that only 20% of passengers buckle up when travelling in a vehicle.
Considering that passenger deaths in children is the fourth leading cause of unnatural deaths in the country, then it stands to reason that according to South African law an adult is guilty of a criminal offence if they allow a child younger than 14 years to travel in a motor vehicle unrestrained. The driver of the vehicle will be arrested and charged with homicide if a child that was unrestrained at the time of an accident, dies as a result of the accident. This is frightening, but not as hair-raising as the fact that there is a 75% chance that a child will die if thrown out of the car when an accident occurs which, according to Professor Sebastian von As of the Red Cross Children’s Hospital, is the case.
On average the Red Cross Children’s Hospital in Cape Town treats 20 children a month for injuries sustained in car accidents. What is shocking is that on average 80% of these children are unrestrained at the time of the accident. Unfortunately this is not surprising considering that according to a study conducted by the AA, only 16% of children on South African roads are properly restrained while travelling as passengers in cars, despite the fact that 338 children under the age of five died in car accidents last year. It is extremely sad to think that the majority of these injuries and deaths could have been prevented if the drivers of the vehicles had ensured that the children were properly restrained while travelling.
On impact an unrestrained 10kg toddler becomes a 300kg human projectile, rocketing forward, either into the dashboard, into the back of the driver’s seat, or worse yet straight through the windscreen. If children or babies are held on the laps of adults and an accident occurs the forces in a crash often make it impossible to hold onto a child and result in the child being ejected from the vehicle or crushed by the adult holding it.
The rear seat is often mistakenly seen as a safe place to be in a crash, but research and crash tests show that the opposite is true. Unrestrained rear seat passengers are three times more likely to suffer death or serious injury as belted passengers and if the car is involved in a collision unrestrained passengers can hit other occupants with the force of a small elephant causing massive injuries.
Hopefully, if you as a driver of a motor vehicle have in the past been guilty of driving without ensuring that all passengers are safely buckled up, this article will motivate you to obey the law and look after the safety of both yourself and your passengers in future.
Remember that the correct car insurance can replace your car – nothing can replace a life, but responsible driving habits and the use of safety belts can prevent the loss of a life.
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Don’t Let the Economy Restrain a Needed Drug Intervention
February 28, 2009
It seems that not a day goes by without being hit with depressing news regarding our economy. Radio, television, and print constantly remind us that times are tough and that despite an economic stimulus package being ushered through by congress, our economic troubles are far from over. In light of our struggling economy, the public seems to be “trimming the fat” from their family budgets in order to ride out this economic storm. Unfortunately, one of the expenses that seems to be suffering from family budget cutbacks is money that was earmarked for drug intervention services and addiction treatment.
The problem with cutting out drug intervention and addiction treatment from the family budget is that the addiction problem does not simply vanish. It is a progressive disease and, generally speaking, over time the addiction gets worse. People die from addiction. In view of the consequences of addiction, the question families need to ask themselves is whether they really want to deny intervention services and drug treatment for a friend or family member suffering from drug addiction.
The good news is that if you are among the millions of families out there trimming the family budget and you have a friend or family member who is suffering from drug addiction, there are ways to provide help without draining the budget.
On the drug treatment front, there are state and county programs available that offer either free or low cost drug treatment services. You may find yourself spending hours on the phone tracking down such facilities, but it will be time well spent once you find an available facility. Try contacting your county Department of Health and Human Services for county funded drug treatment facilities. Another great resource is your local Salvation Army. If you do not receive information you need from these resources, do not get off the phone until you get a referral to some other agency that might provide the help you are looking for.
If you need to facilitate a drug intervention to get your loved one into treatment please call me at 866 534 4443 and I’ll be happy to explain the drug intervention process, costs involved, and some of the challenges involved in a drug intervention. If you feel that hiring a drug interventionist is beyond your financial resources call me anyway and I’ll be happy to point you in the right direction. You may be able to facilitate a drug intervention on your own. There are excellent resources out there to help you. You might try reading up on the subject first. Debra and Jeff Jay have authored an excellent book on the subject entitled Love First. Another excellent book appropriately entitled Intervention was authored by Vernon Johnson who was one of the early pioneers of drug interventions.
Although the reading materials on the subject of drug interventions are an excellent resource, the process of facilitating a drug intervention on your own, without any prior experience, can be daunting. Think of a person trying to change a head gasket on an engine block without any mechanical experience. There may be engine repair manuals to help you along the way, but you are bound to have many questions that may not be addressed in the manual. In that regard, several years ago I created a service that I call “Do it yourself Interventions.” This is a service I provide to families who need intervention services but do not have the resources to hire an intervention specialist to come out and facilitate the process from the beginning to end. I provide all of the materials needed for the intervention along with several hours of phone consultation to help families walk through the process at a fraction of the cost.
The bottom line is that addiction should not be ignored despite the economic costs associated with drug intervention and drug treatment. The problem of addiction will continue, and, more than likely, will get worse.
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The Role and Duties of the Sheriff in the Criminal Justice Field
February 28, 2009
The job of the Sheriff is going to vary from jurisdiction to jurisdiction and from state to state. In many cases, he and his deputies are the police force for a county. They aid and assist with the different units within a county.
In some cases, they are also the primary law enforcement for smaller portions of the county. This is due to the economy of the community or the actual size of the community.
Not all communities in a county can afford to have their own police department.
Primarily the Sheriff in many cases has the duty of being the law enforcement for the county that they represent. They have duties such as being the police force for the courthouse of the county as well as handling the duties of running a county jail if one exists.
They are also responsible for overseeing transporting of prisoners as well as enforcing traffic laws on county highways if they fall in the proper jurisdiction. There are some specific things in regards to most County Sheriff departments.
In many cases, the Sheriffs are elected official. That means that he or she is responsible to the people as they are holding a public office. So not only do they have the job of enforcing the law, but they are also responsible for keeping the people in their county or jurisdiction happy with the job that they are doing. In many cases, the mayor of the city or the city council appoints the police chief, whereas the Sheriffs are public representatives.
He or she is still responsible for upholding all aspects of the law. They are not simply a public figure who is allowed to carry a gun and a badge. They are representatives who enforce the law as well as practice it.
They are responsible for the safety of the communities that they represent as well as making sure that certain things occur in their jurisdictions, such as carrying out court orders for the areas that they preside over. In some instances, they are to make sure that community service is complete as well as enforcing sentencing to varying degrees of people who have been convicted of various crimes.
They are not only responsible for the transporting of prisoners and the execution of their sentences, but also in maintaining the local prison where these sentences are sometimes served or where prisoners are housed awaiting trial. This is just one of the many hats that the Sheriff and the office that it runs have to wear.
So, he or she is a lawmaker, representative and landlord all rolled into one. They maintain the peace in the community that they represent by being elected and maintaining the trust of the people that elect them.
They also have the responsibility of keeping the prison and the prisoners housed in the prison in check. Law and order is absolute must in prison or things could get out of hand.
As you can see above, the sheriff has lots of duties and role to play in the criminal justice fields. To put it mildly, it is lots of responsibility for one little title, which many people do not think about.
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February 28, 2009
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